An advance apology is submitted for seeking intense forgiveness over under written views:-
Its the level of our internal psychological satisfaction that a man either from the most backward and underprivileged area of Toba Kakari, Pishin or of the most sophisticated and developed Manhattan, NewYork always drags a woman, a feminine soul into the words of disgrace, slang terms, abusive language whenever get in contact of fight, quarrel or a dispute of any sort with another man.
While in wrath, woe, pessimism, rampage or in any worst condition, the barrel of our guns are always toward a woman. I really dont understand the myth of emotiomal and sentimental inclination behind it or never came on any conclusion that why an entity that feed us in womb, we get metabolized in a cradle or pushed toward a successive stage but still in thoughts of disrespect for them. We put a dignity to the the course discourtesy who ruined their (her) lives by putting us on the stairs of dignity and prestige. We do not abuse a mother, sister, a wife or a daughter of someone's else but actually we dishonor our own because they all are same but we all (males) are different. We the human, the so called champion of all beings existing on earth are the real losers of maligning our own genetic match, whereas in my ideology even the virtual creatures like demons or sarcastically the degraded animals of worsen natures be clapping on us.
What i conceived very often, we get satisfied by abuses that is directly or indirectly linked with sex to extinguish our boiling lava, lets have few common examples:
1) da da mor wo khor *********.
2) uski bivi ka ye wo.
3) He son of a bitch or they Mother fu***rs.
and many many more in different languages with astounding and shameful phrases, just imagine for a while have you ever heard an abuse directing a male (i.e. his bro dash dash dash, her father bla bla bla etc) or lets have a glance once more, did you ever hear an exchange of slang terms during a fight between guys that i will slap you mother, or i will kill your wife or i will punch your sister on her face etc, No i think none would have ever been acrossed through such (soft) wordings.
Now even females got the addiction of abuses knowingly they can never do what they pay in words (lolz).
Sometimes in unintentional situations our internal obscenity and dirt comes out on non living objects to tranquilize our senses (we abuse a car tire when it gets puncture, or we pay negative words when mobile charger is not working etc) or during irregular and matchless circumstances (abuses while sudden electric load shedding, obnoxious remarks over breakdown of internet connection etc) with unpleasent words always contain abuses of female genitalias though it is known to us that it cant be harmed in anyways if thought with calm mind. Unfortunately the most educated sect of our society have never tried of getting rid of this menace or highlighted it at any forum or adding in curriculums to standardize the "womenitarian" norms and values by substituting the abusive language with any positive alternate so that
"سانپ بھی مر جائے اور لاٹھی بھی نہ ٹوٹے"
In short, if not to an hight extent but to diminish this attitude even to a minimum level, then we could able to call ourselves as the real man. We may be the most cultured and civilized nation in context of this 21st century but would probably be called " The age of Ignorance" by after next thousand years.
Its the level of our internal psychological satisfaction that a man either from the most backward and underprivileged area of Toba Kakari, Pishin or of the most sophisticated and developed Manhattan, NewYork always drags a woman, a feminine soul into the words of disgrace, slang terms, abusive language whenever get in contact of fight, quarrel or a dispute of any sort with another man.
While in wrath, woe, pessimism, rampage or in any worst condition, the barrel of our guns are always toward a woman. I really dont understand the myth of emotiomal and sentimental inclination behind it or never came on any conclusion that why an entity that feed us in womb, we get metabolized in a cradle or pushed toward a successive stage but still in thoughts of disrespect for them. We put a dignity to the the course discourtesy who ruined their (her) lives by putting us on the stairs of dignity and prestige. We do not abuse a mother, sister, a wife or a daughter of someone's else but actually we dishonor our own because they all are same but we all (males) are different. We the human, the so called champion of all beings existing on earth are the real losers of maligning our own genetic match, whereas in my ideology even the virtual creatures like demons or sarcastically the degraded animals of worsen natures be clapping on us.
What i conceived very often, we get satisfied by abuses that is directly or indirectly linked with sex to extinguish our boiling lava, lets have few common examples:
1) da da mor wo khor *********.
2) uski bivi ka ye wo.
3) He son of a bitch or they Mother fu***rs.
and many many more in different languages with astounding and shameful phrases, just imagine for a while have you ever heard an abuse directing a male (i.e. his bro dash dash dash, her father bla bla bla etc) or lets have a glance once more, did you ever hear an exchange of slang terms during a fight between guys that i will slap you mother, or i will kill your wife or i will punch your sister on her face etc, No i think none would have ever been acrossed through such (soft) wordings.
Now even females got the addiction of abuses knowingly they can never do what they pay in words (lolz).
Sometimes in unintentional situations our internal obscenity and dirt comes out on non living objects to tranquilize our senses (we abuse a car tire when it gets puncture, or we pay negative words when mobile charger is not working etc) or during irregular and matchless circumstances (abuses while sudden electric load shedding, obnoxious remarks over breakdown of internet connection etc) with unpleasent words always contain abuses of female genitalias though it is known to us that it cant be harmed in anyways if thought with calm mind. Unfortunately the most educated sect of our society have never tried of getting rid of this menace or highlighted it at any forum or adding in curriculums to standardize the "womenitarian" norms and values by substituting the abusive language with any positive alternate so that
"سانپ بھی مر جائے اور لاٹھی بھی نہ ٹوٹے"
In short, if not to an hight extent but to diminish this attitude even to a minimum level, then we could able to call ourselves as the real man. We may be the most cultured and civilized nation in context of this 21st century but would probably be called " The age of Ignorance" by after next thousand years.
